Your first step toward mind blowing French kissing: Establish great chemistry. "When you're talking to a guy, if you're dying to touch him, you know you're attracted," says William Cane. But how can you tell if he's blinded by your science? "Look for signs like sustained eye contact and keen interest in what you're saying," says Cane.

Once you know the attraction is mutual, invade his space with a tantalizing kiss-me-telegram. That's what works for for Kristy Cunningham. "I make tempting innocent body contact with a new man so that he knows subconsciously that I want to get physical," It creates such sparks that when we finally do kiss, it's like lightning striking.

Or if lip licking vixen is more your style, savor a meal together. Watching each other's sensual lips and mouth relish the flavor drive eachother wild.

Everyone has their pecking preferences. And as most of us already know, forcing your on an unwitting partner can instantly make him kisstory. Ninety percent of guys prefer French kisses with a little NFL roughness. Most women prefer light, feathery French kisses. Steve Daley says that to clue a woman in to what he wants in a French kiss, he'll smooch her the way he wants to be kissed back.

But what if he's a complete smooch goof? "When I first met my husband, it was like making out with an Electolux power nozzle, "says Jenny Wilcox, an accountant in Tucson, Arizona.

If that's the case with your kisser, it's important to give him the proper peck as soon as possible, according to Cheryl Green. It will save you a lot of suffering and him a lot of embarrassment. That's exactly what Wilcox did to clean up her kissing klutz. As soon as he started tongue tackling, I'd very sweetly say, Stop. Then I'd pause, teasing him for two seconds, and tell him, 'I want to French kiss you the way that I like to be French kissed. Within a month, he was returning my French kisses with finesse.
When it comes to French kissing, you don't want to be just good, you want to be outstanding, says Ava Cadell, Ph.D. First kiss your lovers face all over. Start out with dry, baby pecks on his eyebrows, chin and cheeks. Then trace the outline of your lover's lips with the tip of your tongue. When you get to his mouth, don't dive in, instead, slowly exert a little more pressure. Entice him by pulling back and sucking gently on his bottom lip. Finally, go in for a French kiss, this time with a lot of wetness to increas the excitement. Caress his hair, and face. Men absolutely love it when a woman takes control of a kiss.
- Kristen Kemp ©

I am in favor of preserving the French
habit of kissing ladies' hands - after all,
one must start somewhere.
- Sacha Guitry